What do you think? That you even have to look it up? I won't say it isn't. Those people can do whatever they want with their life. But do you think they resorted to Googling it? To seek approval from the crowd? Beg people to validate them? It's not okay for

you, and you know it. You're different from them. They're strong, and confident, and they know what they are. They didn't need to do this. You're floating in a dark sea, and the waves are threatening to cover your head. Maybe if you get permission from someone first, to be

a woman, someone will reach down to you and pull you out of the water and tell you it's all okay. But there's no angel coming to help you. There will be no twist in the third act to pull you out of the sea, and it will swallow you whole, bones

and all. You're going to drown in this if you don't pull yourself out. But here you are, typing desperately, calling for anyone to grab your hand and drag you onto dry land, and they'll tell you they figured out what's wrong with you, and they made you a perfect beautiful

woman on top of all that. If you keep calling into the abyss someone will lift all the responsibility from your shoulders. But it won't happen. You're on your own, and you can't handle the pressure. It's not okay for you to be trans, because you could never be anything alone.